A number of my clients do not involve their spouse in the financial decision making to the point where the husband (typically) wants to be the only one present. While I recognize that this process is more about values than it is about finances, the husband refuses to let the wife attend because she isn't involved in that type of decision making. Should I insist that both spouses be there knowing that the husband won't 'open up' if the wife is there?

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Last updated: 20 Nov, 2019

Yes. Neither you, nor he, really know how about "opening up" until the meeting actually occurs. It's a very cool thing to watch a husband and wife relationship shift for the better due to you facilitating their Financial Road Map®.

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