I have been making Self-Referral calls to people I know from the past. I have been using the opening, “Hi....I'm calling because I'm not sure if something special etc. Do you have a few minutes to talk with me?” I then continue by asking, “Have you ever thought about what your Ideal Life would look like?” A couple times now it has that they won't answer me because they feel inhibited to speak freely as colleagues might be able to hear their answers. As a result I don’t receive any Meaningful, Important, Significant and Compelling information from them. In these cases should I ask if I can call them at a time when they can speak freely?

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Last updated: 20 Nov, 2019

Yes. And then schedule a phone appointment for that conversation.

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