Is there a script for people introducing me at a cocktail party, etc...Even if they are not an Ideal Client themselves?

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Last updated: 20 Nov, 2019

"This is my friend, ___Your Name____, he is brilliant at helping people make better choices and live better lives. I thought you would like to meet him."

You take it from there by asking your questions, determining if there is fit, making the offer, etc.

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I was at a private health clinic the other day getting an in depth annual checkup (as per your suggestion). I met with the Director briefly and was answering her questions about my experience and how the process is going regarding my health assessment. She started asking me questions around my work, for example - how is your work is going? Is this a busy time for you? etc. 1. I wanted to create a script when someone asks me, “So how’s your work going,” other than just saying, “GREAT,” and the conversation ending. Example – “My work is great, It is very rewarding being able to help successful people achieve their goals.” 2. What would you say to then PIVOT after answering the question, “how’s you work going?” ( I want to PIVOT and then ask a meaningful question about her ). 3. What is an opening question you would use after this PIVOT to continue the conversation down a more meaningful path to gather Meaningful, Important, Significant and Compelling information about HER. Can you help with some scripting?

Can you go through what a compelling Referral Conversation™ sounds like?

At a Progress Meeting my client wrote 4 notes on books and agreed to supply the address and phone numbers the following week. This client experienced my first Financial Road Map® before any training. I called for the address and during the conversation I could sense tension. After I received the addresses I asked for M.I.S.C. information and she was very uncomfortable and didn't understand why I needed personal information to solicit business from her friends. She explained that she told the people about my services and the book. They all informed her that they were happy with the advice they were currently receiving. I tried to explain that the information was a gift with no obligation and that the personal information was helpful to connect concepts in the book with something that was meaningful in their lives. I said that I didn't want to introduce this information into their world if it wasn't relevant. I said that the Financial Road Map® would help them be more effective with their current advisor. I feel like I did a poor job of communicating and probably reacted in a defensive manner. Should I send the books without the M.I.S.C. information, should I wait until the next Progress Meeting, (to better explain the process), or should I do a new Financial Road Map® with them to get an emotional connection. My clients believe that I will be sending the books but I am not comfortable that they will not be perceived as gifts.

I am just starting on my journey with 6 ideal clients and calculated the number of phone call meetings I need to make(to be Done in 4 years or less)as 5/day. What activities do you suggest I be doing now/ASAP, to ensure I am getting these numbers so I can fill my activities calendar each day?

The Referral Conversations™ imply that my current Ideal (or near Ideal) clients have previously received a copy of the Values-Based Financial Planning™ book. None of them have.

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